{"product_id":"hard-talks-gently","title":"Hard Talks, Gently","description":"\u003cp\u003eYou let the small things go because a scene feels worse than the problem. Then they pile up: the dishes, the plans made without you, the friend who cancels again. You know you should say something. You just don't know how to start without it turning into a fight.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003e\u003cem\u003eHard Talks, Gently\u003c\/em\u003e is a 39-page guide for people who would rather keep the peace. It helps you decide what's worth raising, prepare in ten minutes, open with a calm, kind first line, and stay steady when the conversation gets hard, with listening lines, an agreed pause plan and words to repair things when they wobble.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eUnlike advice that tells you to \"just say how you feel\" or hands out labels, this guide gives you the actual words: 30 opening scripts for chores, money, plans, family boundaries, roommates, a friend who keeps canceling and a partner's phone habits. Its methods are carefully sourced, with Gottman Institute ideas credited to the Gottman Institute, and it puts safety first, with clear limits and current helpline details for anyone who feels afraid.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eWho it's for\u003c\/h3\u003e\n\u003cp\u003eUS adults who avoid conflict with a partner, family member, roommate or friend, swallow small frustrations until they pile up, and want calm words to start hard conversations in a relationship where they feel safe.\u003c\/p\u003e\n\u003ch3\u003eWhat's inside\u003c\/h3\u003e\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eAn \"Is this worth raising?\" sorter\u003c\/strong\u003e plus how to pick your moment, the right channel and what to do if you freeze up.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eThe 10-minute prep and the gentle start-up:\u003c\/strong\u003e what happened, how you felt, what you need and one specific ask, turned into a first line.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003e30 opening scripts by situation,\u003c\/strong\u003e from chores, money and plans to family boundaries, roommates, a friend who keeps canceling and a partner's phone habits.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eIn-the-moment tools:\u003c\/strong\u003e listening lines, an agreed pause plan for when emotions run high, repair phrases, what to say if they get defensive, and a six-part apology.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eAfterward and beyond:\u003c\/strong\u003e follow-up lines, a written-agreement template, a six-rung practice ladder, boundaries versus ultimatums, 5 printable worksheets and a quick-reference card.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e\u003ch3\u003eGood to know\u003c\/h3\u003e\u003cul\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eFormat:\u003c\/strong\u003e 39-page PDF (US Letter, US edition), plus Hard-Talks_Prep-and-Script-Cards.pdf, an 8-page printable with the 10-minute prep worksheet and 48 pocket-size cards (all 30 opening scripts plus listening, pause, repair and follow-up lines, and 4 blank cards), eight per page with dashed cut lines.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003eDelivery:\u003c\/strong\u003e instant digital download. Nothing is shipped.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003e\n\u003cstrong\u003ePrinting:\u003c\/strong\u003e you may print the guide and the cards as often as you like for your own use.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003cli\u003eThis guide shares general information for everyday disagreements in safe relationships. It isn't therapy, counseling or legal advice and doesn't diagnose anyone. It is not for abuse or control: if you feel afraid of someone, contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-SAFE (7233). Intelevo isn't affiliated with the Gottman Institute or any organization named in the guide.\u003c\/li\u003e\n\u003c\/ul\u003e","brand":"Intelevo","offers":[{"title":"Default Title","offer_id":50832628842693,"sku":null,"price":4.99,"currency_code":"USD","in_stock":true}],"thumbnail_url":"\/\/cdn.shopify.com\/s\/files\/1\/0845\/1919\/0725\/files\/hard-talks-gently-cover-2026-11.jpg?v=1793633361","url":"https:\/\/intelevo-intelligence.com\/products\/hard-talks-gently","provider":"INTELEVO","version":"1.0","type":"link"}